The first-year experience: a sense of belonging (the baby)
Published: November 12, 2010Section: Features
We’ve only been in college for two-and-a-half months, but it already feels like home. After an exhausting week of orientation, struggling to remember how to study after a bout of high school senioritis and a carefree summer, we’ve finally finished (multiple) midterms and are already looking forward to winter break. College has only begun, but we’re already getting leadership positions in clubs, working 10 hours a week, driving the BranVan, writing 10-page papers and going into Boston on the weekends. We’ve discovered the best places to study that aren’t in the library, a close group of friends and which laundry machines actually work.
Even though most of us are thoroughly enjoying our college experience, there are always things that could be better. Chemistry is difficult in a class of more than 200, the food at Sherman is beginning to get unbearable and friends are far away. While some of my hallmates go home every weekend, I haven’t talked to some of my high school friends, whom I used to see just about every day, in months. I miss eating real food and I miss giving my younger brother a hug goodnight. We’re lucky to have so much technology to make communication easier—Skype, texting, Facebook, e-mail—but sometimes you can’t replace real human contact with the people you love.
It has certainly taken some adjusting, but Brandeis is now where we belong. Just a year ago, we were stressing about college applications, wondering where we’d finally end up. Now, it hardly matters. We’re at Brandeis, and regardless of whether or not it was our first choice or our last choice, we are part of the university for the rest of our lives.